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美好的依然美好

 
原来不只是面对婚姻需要如此多的准备 面对爱情也是同样需要准备的
 
不管世界如何混浊 不管以后我面对的是谁 我只祈愿我的心和爱纯洁 且更加勇敢
 

Journey of my own..

 
亚当和夏娃也是天意的安排吗?
 
 

人在厦门

 
在朋友的办公室 用着朋友的电脑 俨然自己也成了个老板
朋友是我以前的室友 辞去了上海知名设计室的工作 毅然回来厦门
开始创业
 
如同任何始创业的年轻人
有担忧 有阻力 有困窘
然 看到朋友从两人团队渐发展到七个人的团队
觉得事情 就这么做起来了
 
我现在做的事情 虽然小
却是我一直以来想做而没有做的事情
我想 做自己喜欢做的事情
它的辛苦和困顿也都值得细细咀嚼

Journey story

 
On the way to the Cameron Highland of Malaysia, we came across few aboriginal kids selling durian. We bought all their durian and took photos for/with them. They were very happy ^^ If I can send these photos back to them one day that would be the best thing I will ever do.
 
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Ten Lotus Touts

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
 
TWO.
Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
  
FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
  
FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.
 
SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
 
  EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much
  
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
 
THIRTEEN! .. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

  FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
  
FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
  
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

  SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respe ct for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
  
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

 TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

TWENTY- ONE. Spend some time alone.

 
有些事情 不能永远 不需要永远..
 
真正的爱情 让人迷失自己

还原

 
一无所有 才知道生命的意义

无比烦躁

 
记录写这篇blog时候的状态
 
耳边这么多声音 我都听见了 又都没听见
听不到自己的声音
我需要听到的不是人声是脚步声
 
WTH WTH WTH!
为什么不像以前那么仅仅有兴趣就好了 变得这么浮躁 都是因为物质吧!
WTF WTF WTF!
 
房子 车子 老公 男人 证书 移民 工作 统统GO TO THE HELL LAR!
 
...
 
让老娘我安静安静
...

再次幻想...湮灭

 
人们生前和死后都处在最真实的观念世界中。在那里, 每个人都是男女合体的完整的人, 到了现实世界,我们都分裂为二。所以人们总觉得若有所失, 企图找回自己的“另一半”。没有哪一半是比较重要的, 男女是平等的。你原本的另一半就是你最完美的对象,而他/她就在世界的某个角落, 也正在寻找着你。
 
-- 柏拉图的爱情哲学
 
你会认定某个人是你的另外一半吗 怎样知道一个人是不是你的另一半 要不要凑和一个'另一半'
 
相信爱情吗?也许你今生都遇不到你的另一半...
 
每向现实跨进一步 就是幻想走向湮灭的一步..
 
我不知道 到最后把它掐灭的 是我还是他..

有人说嫉妒是女人的天性。。

 
嫉妒
排他性的占有欲,畏惧背弃。
在感情关系上,嫉妒表现为一种病态。病态的嫉妒想要确保个体的唯一性,并且畏惧那种萦绕在心头的被反叛的心绪。在猜忌和持续不断的不安当中,人的行为举止经常会变得很激进,能够达到病理学上妄想症的程度。在现实生活中或在猜想中,对其竞争对手过分留心和进行妄想性的嫉妒,会出现潜在的同性恋的征兆。
心理学词典这么解释嫉妒。
莎士比亚说:要留心嫉妒,那是一个绿眼的妖魔。
 
说出那些话的时候我开始后悔了。
嫉妒中伤了我,我不应不负责任乱说话来中伤他。
 
很多人对自己已得到的感情不珍惜,
却在失去后追悔。
其实 对感情太珍惜的时候也容易使得彼此不能呼吸。
 
爱情不是占有。
相反应该是给予和牺牲吧。
 

Read..

 
我的幻想毫无价值,我的计划渺如尘埃,我的目标不可能达到。一切的一切毫无意义——除非付诸行动。

Wish had a house by the sea..

 

R n M 008 R n M 009

R n M 013 R n M 015

R n M 016 R n M 025

R n M 026 R n M 064

R n M 069 R n M 076

R n M 099 R n M 138R n M 172

R n M 178 R n M 182

Feel Like to Dance

 
There is a melody, always in my mind.
Shall we dance, let's dance
all the way along the valley
from the field to the forest, in the morning till the dawn..
rise with birds, rest with trees
waltz into sweet dreams.. 

上海里拉叮咚

The whole weekend I have spent with Michael and his funny gay friend Peter.
Damn pretty looking and grace behaving gay! We went to Face, Studio, Jean George, the bars I go often.
Tired though good experience, like Studio, I didnt know there was such place. There all I could do was looking at the ground with Michael..There was a very fat gay guy smiling at me, I smiled back, then I started to look at the ground...my fantasy about a glamourous gay bar had been destroyed Shouldnt be a lot of muscles and nature made bodies hanging around?
Jean, the most expensive and weird french cuisien with the least potion I have seen. It is not measured by plate or bowl, it's by spoon and finger tips. Champange jelly and urchin below.
Dingdong 012
Very dark restaurant.. It's even brighter outside.
Dingdong 010
Sal-gri-mon dingdong! the best of the night.
full of favor going with yellow mash, to M chef
Dingdong 014
 

奇怪的发型

平生第一次烫发 ==!
虽然看上去马上老了2岁 不过感觉有点新鲜古怪
可以扮可爱 也可以装成熟的说
下次贴图吧..现在连我自己都还不是很能接受..
 
 
四、五月份以来没有朝九晚五 甚至可以说黑白颠倒.. 不过要忙的东西还蛮多的
几朋友趁我无事跑来上海 我悉数陪同..
尽多地找多份兼职 一尝soho味道..
soho之后也许 只是也许 就不会想要尝试别的了吧
安安心心做回我的市场 过回都市朝九晚五
 
以上也算是对关心好奇我近来行踪的朋友们的交待吧
 
祝安  好心情
 

感情的债

 
那么多人对我好
越多人对我好
亲爱的你
能告诉我吗
为什么我感觉越孤单
 
我觉得我欠好多的
感情的债
亲情的 友情的 恋情的
 
他们都是不求回报的付出
我也不觉得这是我理所应当得到的
 
亲情 友情我可以加倍努力奉还
而恋情是我没有办法偿还的
 
我不知道我在等什么
我只感觉 若需要
我会为了我爱的人
放弃全世界
 

薇心动

haohao 004 haohao 005

haohao 008haohao 009haohao 010

信不信

 
朋友说 我跟基督教有缘
何出此言
 
一说是我屋里的两幅画 左边是crystel抓拍的我 右边是我汽车上拍到的一个教堂
无心地把两幅画挂在一起,看似我面朝着教堂..
一说是我进教堂掉眼泪的事情...
 
于是这位基督徒就开始给我传教。
 
呵 我觉得对宗教的信仰其实是一个人对生命生活现象和遭遇无解的时候得出的解释..
在人困苦的时候给人安慰和心灵的寄托..
可我觉得任何事情的发生,任何现象的存在都有一个因..这个因是实实在在的.
心结总有打开的时候 而主角是自己的心
 
也许随着时间的推移 我的想法会改变
就像我以前不信缘 现在我也会常把它挂嘴上一样
这么说来 我是跟佛教里的缘说扯上关系了 哈哈
 
咳 还是那句话 该咋地就咋地.